Thursday, December 29, 2005

Poetry Thursday: Not Exactly an Aubade

My daughter turns seven tomorrow.

I know what you might be thinking: a Sylvia Plath poem for a little girl’s birthday, hmmm.

But it’s the right poem for my Mona, and for me, and for the mornings we had. I knew I would miss them--that is how I got through them, by repeating and repeating to myself how I would miss them.


Morning Song
Sylvia Plath

Love set you going like a fat gold watch.
The midwife slapped your footsoles, and your bald cry
Took its place among the elements.

Our voices echo, magnifying your arrival. New statue.
In a drafty museum, your nakedness
Shadows our safety. We stand round blankly as walls.

I'm no more your mother
Than the cloud that distills a mirror to reflect its own slow
Effacement at the wind's hand.

All night your moth-breath

Flickers among the flat pink roses. I wake to listen:

A far sea moves in my ear.

One cry, and I stumble from bed, cow-heavy and floral
In my Victorian nightgown.

Your mouth opens clean as a cat's. The window square

Whitens and swallows its dull stars. And now you try

Your handful of notes;

The clear vowels rise like balloons.




From Ariel, Harper & Row, 1966. Copyright © 1966 by Ted Hughes. Republished for educational purposes only.

[via
Academy of American Poets, natch. Image via Dave Neary]

7 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday.

Just read your post of Nov. 15th. Isn't it magic how we are (co)constructing each other?

I don't believe in anonymity. A famous theorist in my field once wrote: "there is no baby, only baby and mother." He meant that we come to exist, to know ourselves, only in relation to another. Without that other we, literally, would die.

The me you've constructed is the real me. Or rather, it's a fractal of me. It's the part of me that lives in relation to you. Or rather, it's the part of me that lives in relation to a fractal of you.

What really sends me is that those interacting parts create a third, a new thing that didn't exist before.

Ever read any chaos theory? Check it out. We are, to each other, wonderful, new "strange attractors."

You may have to wait until you get out of the wilderness and back to broadband.

12/29/2005 06:10:00 PM  
Blogger Riannan said...

Wow. Great poem, great comment from Anonymous. I'm speechless.
Happy Birthday to Miss Mona.

12/29/2005 06:17:00 PM  
Anonymous Grandma Steffi said...

And I remember when I first saw Mona, all of about 20 minutes old, lying on the little infant table in the room where you'd given birth to her, already wearing the tiny hat that they put on babies in nurseries, diapered but otherwise naked, her thighs plump and her skin remarkably smooth and pink, the most beautiful little baby imaginable. My first granddaughter. And, as I've told her in the story so many times, my immediate thought was, "She's just what I wanted." And you have brought her to the age of seven under the most difficult of circumstances but somehow letting her be the exuberant, deeply feeling, imaginative, loving and impish child that she is. Happy Birthday to both of you on the occasion of your giving birth to her and her being born.

12/29/2005 07:41:00 PM  
Blogger lisa schamess said...

To all of you. To steffi first, perhaps, the only one of you who knows me in what is crudely--or rightly--called "meat space," I would not have made these seven years what they have been, nor been able to raise Mona to be who she is, without you, without you and Gerry, without you and Gerry and Andrew and Rebecca and now Jane and Nophie. Just fresh from a visit with my shy sister, who indeed would prefer to remain (however falsely) anonymous, I am delighted to say that this was the first visit in five years during which I never had to disengage, leave the baby with her, and go collapse because I just couldn't take being conscious anymore.

So here we all are. Ri, I feel sure to interact with you soon out among the creatures, and I cannot wait to drink a glass of really good wine with you, and maybe hang some curtains.

Anonymous, I am flattered and surprised that you are still here, and that you feel there is a crucial--and crucially virtual--relationship between us. Good connections are always made from such initial sparks as ours. The pleasant and unpleasant blended in one must somehow be there for the great changing relations of our lives.

Now I even have a hint of what you do. And that it has to do with relationships is absolutely right. Read on, write on, and don't be a stranger, just constructively estranged.

And with this nearly-new year wish from WV I leave you: twfwncs

12/29/2005 10:00:00 PM  
Anonymous Ayla said...

Happy Birthday cousin Mona! I hope we'll meet each other in the next few years again! I think we'll have lots of things in common. My Ami gave me the most amazing snow-queen dress-up outfit last night. If you were here, I'd let you wear it for a while! Have a great day with your lovely mommy! Give your whole wonderful family a big hug from me!
Love your cousin Ayla in Belgium :-)

12/30/2005 03:24:00 AM  
Blogger Rarity said...

Belated birthday greetings from the land of trolls, too!

It seems one *can* actually get through the most unbearable challenges - even this impossible thing we call life...

12/30/2005 03:54:00 AM  
Blogger Shawn Z. Lea said...

Happy belated birthday, Mona! And many more...

1/02/2006 12:41:00 AM  

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